Thursday, February 4, 2010
Be sexy. This isn't all about lingerie, yes men are visual however being visual means they like to see you being confident about who you are, how you carry yourself. If you don't feel physically attractive it is because of your internal dialogue. Even overweight out of shape women can carry off sexy by telling themselves how sexy they are , how appealing they are, you are what you think you are so think yourself to sexy! (When the negative inner dialogue starts telling you are not, tell it thank you for your opinion and I think I am very, very sexy.) This is important because your brain listens to your inner and your vocal dialogue and then your body responds by acting out what is happening in your brain.
Now men. Everything you just read about women goes to men as well. Not being confident is just as much as a turn off for women as it is for men.