Day 22 of Tips on Romance, dating and relationships
Many times when we get into relationships we are high on the initial excitement of being in love, of finding someone who we enjoy spending our time with however, as in all relationships over time when we come to know someone with their flaws, their annoying little habits and project our own vulnerabilities upon them....we tend to fall back into the past. There is the if only's, or what if I had .....chosen that other person. This is especially true if we have been dumped and have unresolved issues with grief. Sometimes we get stuck in the bargaining stage which allows us to continue to brew, stew and review over our past mistakes or the past mistakes of others.
It also keeps us from having to do the hard work of moving forward.
Move forward. It will be worth it!
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How to let go of past loves!