The greatest pleasure in life is giving pleasure before seeking pleasure. If your sex life is not what you would like it to be then ask yourself why?
Research indicates that when daily household chores are divided equally women report higher satisfaction in the relationships! It's a fact.
Research indicates the more men spend time listening from the heart (listening without interrupting, without giving advice, without the "fix,") women report higher satisfaction in the relationship. It's a fact.
Women are mulitorgasmic. Women have a quicker recovery rate between orgasms than men. So the first orgasm is only foreplay. Giving pleasure before seeking pleasure is the secret to a hot relationship. It's a fact.
These facts have been listed in this order for a reason. A smart person will know what to do with them.